
Many people have had a rough life. Many people know what its like to grow up with an abusive family member; an abusive relationship; a stalker; a neucance; an addiction; a fatal flaw; a deadly secret; a secret kept from you; a night or day you never want to remember; loss of someone close; loss of home; or loss of ones self.. And there are many more things that are not mentioned here but are just as equally important. Many people dont know what life is like. They keep their noses down and drive right past the horses in the meadows. They only look at what the horses leave behind. Well, of course life is gonna stink if that is all you do. Your boyfriend tried to rape you and beat you. You had nobodys shoulder to cry on.—- the bright side, you are still alive. You can keep through this. If possible, and if you believe, you might be able to report him. No proof? Well he is atleast a person of interest now. Stay alive and you could help others smaller and more innocent than you escape the dangers- you could be a role model. This is what we live for. I know it sounds so cliché, but live for the children. If you had a rough childhood- be there for a kid and make his/hers better. They will make you want to do better for yourself. Befriending a small 7 or 8 year old can open up wonders and bring in light to your life. Sure- they can be obnoxious and annoying. But you know why? Its because they want a reaction and they love it. They love you
I hope you realize this
So now in this day and age, Mainstream has become one of the most hated genres. I wonder how long its going to take the rest of the society to realize that going anti-mainstream is becoming mainstream o__o sooner or later, yall better make a choice and be yourself or just be fake. This is just proof that there is no gray area in life -.- you either like justin bieber, or you hate him. You cant just be all like “dude everyone loves whats-his-face so im going to automatically hate him” because thats invalid. Learn to make a choice instead of going by everyone else for a change. Gotta love everyone, but c’mon ;) be yourself.
Xoxo
So many people say that the media is encouraging thin and skinny, which promotes ways to loose weight that are less than enviable.
Many young girls and even boys fall victim to the unhealthy habits of not eating, or “getting rid of” any food they did actually eat.
There is nothing to disagree with the fact that the media has played a large role in what seems to be an epidemic of fears of being obese.
Many models fall victim to mental disabilities such as Anorexia nervosa, and Bulimia nervosa, and more comonly, EDNOS. The pressure
on models to be the most beautiful can create thoughts of wanting to be thinner. Thus moving the media to the “Thinnest model” which
makes all the other models the followers, because he/she was the most beautiful. All because they were thin.
Magazines are now promoting ads of things that say “20 years ago, models were 8% smaller than the average person. now, models are
23% smaller.” and they post up pictures of plus-sized models wearing things ranging from zero to all-out.
They record interviews and intergo reaserch to have atleast one page full of a report on why the medias view of beauty is so distorted.
But what the controversy seems to be is that if overweight people have to see skinny people on billboards and magazines every day,
why should skinny people see overweight people everyday? Its pretty straight forward, and it almost seems discriminating. But what i
have noticed, is that nobody has seemed to pipe up about the normal sized person. The normal size 8 to 10 is being torn on sides of
beauty on both extremities, neither of which are healthy. If you are on the larger size, you are described as “plump” “juicy” “full”
“volumptiuos” “curvy” and so on and so fourth. If you are a smaller size, your most likley to be described as “thin” “graceful”
“delicate” and sometimes “petite” if you are on the shorter side. Then, the “inbetween”, which i have yet to come up with any “cute” names to
describe. And that just leaves me with :average, normal, and to the media: just plain boring. The media wants fresh and exciting, something
to grab attention with. Thats why there have been no ads about being a happy medium. What the happy mediums are failing to realize though,
is that they dont have to change anything about themselves because there is obviously nothing wrong with them. Nobody has said anything
about them because they are healthy, AND good looking. Why should you fight about something that has the best of both worlds? But what the media
has failed to realize is that they dont have to opt to just one extremity. They could use ads of every shape form and size, including the happy medium.
If that were so, you would see “new” and “exciting” on every page, and the world would have a much better inventory of body sizes to choose from, and this could eliminate alot of stress, and could even lower the percentages of Anorexia, Bulimia, and EDNOS.
Yours truley
Lets be honest, how is your life? Have you ever stopped to realize how good it is? I dont care how much of an abused child you are, i really want you to think. What perspective are you looking at things from? If you were on that ladder, would you A: really claim that as a wash on your day and automatically bitch about it; would you B: call the person over and bitch about it and laugh while you pounce on his/her face; or do you C: think they did it because they love you? If you answered A, try and be more optimistic about things. When you fell, you became more cognisent of them and what they will probably do to you again. Then you can PWN them by being one step agead. If you got B, take. A. Chill. Pill. You need to realize that even though you could have potentially broken your neck, that you can probably do the same to tem next time and laugh for payback ;) if you answered C, your a sweetheart, but one day your gonna be stomped on. Be just a tad more deviant to that person one day ;)
Pax
Think of our future. Think of our next generations future. Where will we lead them too? Do we really want 7 year olds wanting to be stoned?
Xoxo
Short remedy- i watch something depressing and way over dramatic. Something i can relate to. Then i watch the spoof ;)
Long term- i make every way if expression of myself possible to show what i am feeling, like posting a depressing poem on an anonymous website:)
Society has changed. What ever happend to the men opening doors for ladies, and the ladies just sit back and watch men do all the manly work while they become ultra manipulative and sloothey. I mean, look where freedom has led us. (this is a picture of people i know, they were just kidding around, it is to proove a point) people have become more open about themselves . Sure we all have our secrets, but must we share to the world what lies inside our deepest darkest closets? There is nothing wrong with being gay, or emo, or hippie, or satanic, or catholic, or anything. But there is something wrong when you try and use it to get sympathy or attention. If its for that, then thats not the true you. Peace out loves






